Give Your Best To Relationships

Posted on Mar 18, 2011 in Motivation, Personal Development, Relationships | 3 comments

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Have you heard or read the following story?

A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her.

The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed. The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised.

That night, the girl slept peacefully. But the boy couldn’t sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.

Moral of the story: 
If you don’t give your hundred percent in a relationship, you’ll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent..

This is applicable for any relationship like love, employer-employee relationship etc., Give your hundred percent to everything you do and sleep peacefully.

  • If you are in any relationship and you decide to hold back only you will lose – for some they have yet to realize this.
  • Dont play marbles with a girl that has candy
  • Trading marbles for something that has an expiration date is a very bad investment.
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Thinking Before You Speak…

Posted on Mar 11, 2011 in Personal Development, Reality Checks, Relationships | 1 comment

When someone becomes upset in a relationship it gets easy to fly off the handle and possibly say or do something that one might happen to regret at som later point in time. It is in those moments that one must maintain the self control to thing clearly and not let emotion take control of the situation. It is a time for better choices and cooler heads to prevale. To let things get out of hand can lead to situations that are beyond possible repair and the loss of something or someone that could truly special. Remember that there are times that when you say something it can not be erased from the minds of the people that hear it.

With that being said… You have many options to avoid the problems that conflict can present. You can walk away, choose silence, or even just choose not to let the conflict continue.

In your next conflict, what are the choices you will make? Where will they take you and what is your goal in that situation?

The choices in each interaction can lead you in a multitude of directions, it is in your best interest to make choices that lead you in the direction of your long term dreams and not winning for the moment.

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21 Suggestions For Success

Posted on Mar 2, 2011 in Personal Development, Quotes, Reality Checks, Relationships | 1 comment

21 Suggestions for Success
by H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

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  • Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.
  • Work at something you enjoy and that’s worthy of your time and talent.
  • Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
  • Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
  • Be forgiving of yourself and others.
  • Be generous.
  • Have a grateful heart.
  • Persistence, persistence, persistence.
  • Discipline yourself to save money on even the most modest salary.
  • Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
  • Commit yourself to constant improvement.
  • Commit yourself to quality.
  • Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, but on relationships with people you love and respect.
  • Be loyal.
  • Be honest.
  • Be a self-starter.
  • Be decisive even if it means you’ll sometimes be wrong.
  • Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life.
  • Be bold and courageous. When you look back on your life, you’ll regret the things you didn’t do more than the ones you did.
  • Take good care of those you love.
  • Don’t do anything that wouldn’t make your Mom proud.

 

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Relationship Quotes

Posted on Feb 9, 2011 in Quotes, Relationships | 0 comments

CAIRNS, AUSTRALIA - DECEMBER 08: Oprah Winfrey...

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Sometimes the best way to say something is the way someone more literary than you has said it. In that vein, here are some relationship quotes of note:
“Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.”
“Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they’re trying to find someone who’s going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.”
“Some people come into our lives and leave footprints on our hearts and we are never ever the same.” -Flavia Weedn
“The act of forgiveness is the act of returning to present time. And that’s why when one has become a forgiving person, and has managed to let go of the past, what they’ve really done is they’ve shifted their relationship with time.”
“Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.”
“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with”
“Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.”
~ Aristotle
“The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart.”
~ Helen Keller
“Where does the family start? It starts with a young man falling in love with a girl – no superior alternative has yet been found.”
~ Winston Churchill
“It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionship and persevering courtship. Love is the offspring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, it will not be created for years or even generations.”
~ Kahlin Gibran
“To love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person.”
“Man is a knot into which relationships are tied.”
“You can’t stop loving or wanting to love because when its right, it’s the best thing in the world. When you’re in a relationship and it’s good, even if nothing else in your life is right, you feel like your whole world is complete.”
“Our greatest joy-and our greatest pain comes in our relationships with others.”
“Love doesn’t just sit there like a stone; it has to be made – like bread, remade all the time, made new.”
“Once the trust goes out of a relationship, it’s really no fun lying to ‘em anymore.”
~ Norm from Cheers
There is a broad collection of relationship quotes for you.
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5 Ways to Get Back With Your Ex

Posted on Oct 29, 2010 in Personal Development, Reality Checks, Relationships | 0 comments

Relationships are fragile bonds that need to be built up and maintained in order to keep them healthy and allow them to flourish. Unfortunately, break ups do happen, and they are nerve wracking, stressful and frustrating. If you are involved in a relationship that breaks up, you may be thinking that you want to get back at your ex but is this really the best step to take? One of the most influential ways that you can actually get back at your ex will not only put your ex in an interesting predicament, but it may also repair the relationship by showing your ex how important you are and were to them. So not only are these 5 tips to get back at your ex but they are also excellent methods for getting your ex back as well.

1 – Be strong. No one needs the needy, and this saying applies very well when it comes to broken up relationships. You need to stop begging, clinging or exhibiting the behavior of someone who is feeling desperate. Let your ex think that you have moved on just fine without them by acting strong and moving on. When you’ve moved on, your ex will realize that they have not.

2 – Minimize communication. Closing the doors of communication may appear counterintuitive when your primary focus is to rekindle things, but it is one of the most important steps when getting back at your ex or getting your ex back. Take a break from your ex, close off communication, and let him or her stew for a little while without any contact. This will allow your ex to clear his or her mind and realize how valuable your relationship was.

3 – Be flexible. Do not be forceful with your ex, demanding that they move out, or pick their things up by a certain date. Be flexible, be a listener and a sympathizer. Your ex will be surprised when they see this side of you, and it may inspire them to build the lines of communication that were lacking when the breakup came into play.

4 – Get the heck out! This is no time for you to be alone. Call your friends and get out of the house. Develop a social network and enjoy some entertainment in your life. This may not mean you need to date, or even pay attention to the opposite sex, but you do need to be getting out and enjoying your time with your friends. Not only will this be therapeutic for you, but it will also help convince your ex that they lost a gem.

5 – Simply be yourself. There was a really good reason for why you and your ex had a relationship to begin with, so go back to being yourself and let your ex remember why they loved you in the first place. This renewed self perception of your own self will surely rub off on your ex as well.

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